Pubdate: Sat, 13 Feb 1999 Date: 02/13/1999 Source: Chicago Tribune (IL) Author: Marty Nachel Section: Sec. 1 ORLAND PARK -- In addition to Peter Palanca's tips for avoiding mixed messages about alcohol ("Kids and drinking," Voice, Feb. 4): - Parents who enjoy an occasional drink in the home should do so openly. Moderation is key. - Show children that wine, beer and other alcoholic drinks are acceptable beverage alternatives (for adults) at the dinner table. - Allow children a small taste; this will not only satisfy their natural curiosity, but it will also help to avoid the "forbidden fruit" syndrome. Marty Nachel