Pubdate: Wed, 16 Jun 2010 Source: Calgary Herald (CN AB) Herald (CN AB)Website: http://www.calgaryherald.com/ Copyright: 2010 Canwest Publishing Inc. Contact: http://www2.canada.com/calgaryherald/letters.html Website: http://www.calgaryherald.com/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/66 Author: Rosaline Yetunde Akinokun Referenced: http://www.mapinc.org/drugnews/v10/n447/a09.html?1333 RUNNING SCARED Re: "Boy who was in foster care in U.S. returns to Calgary," June 13. "He was so happy, he just ran to me and hugged me. It was wonderful" - -- those were the heartwarming words of the mother of the boy taken by the Oregon social services. When it comes to child care, the social services are so uptight they can barely see the difference between a bad parent and one who made a slip in an unguarded moment. This boy was picked up riding his bicycle without a helmet, and I am stumped this warranted keeping him from his biological mother and with different foster homes for so long. The welfare officials need to put themselves in the affected people's shoes to enable them to make more humane decisions. I am a mother of two boisterous kids, and am so paranoid about the social services that my first thought is about the welfare consequence if they were ever to hurt themselves in a domestic accident. Putting parents on the defensive is not ideal. I hope she seeks legal restitution from the Oregon Department of Human Services. That she is an editor of a pro-marijuana magazine does not make her criminal. We know that marijuana has some medical use. Rosaline Yetunde Akinokun, Calgary - --- MAP posted-by: Jay Bergstrom