Pubdate: Wed, 25 May 2005 Source: St. Albert Gazette (CN AB) Copyright: 2005 St. Albert Gazette Contact: http://www.stalbertgazette.com/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/2919 Author: Sarah Laing ADDICTION CAN HAPPEN TO ANY OF US I felt compelled to address the recent and necessary discussion surrounding drug use in St. Albert. People all too often refuse to acknowledge that the only thing that separates them from someone with an addiction can be as simple as a bad decision or some other uncontrollable life circumstance. Experiences affect self-esteem and perception and there is no way to definitively assert exactly why or how they will affect certain people in such disastrous ways. People with addictions come from all sorts of families, all sorts of situations and all sorts of backgrounds. No human is immune to heroin or speed. People start using for a variety of reasons, some consensual, some not. We are unable to fully understand why certain individuals and not others are plagued with an addiction. We have all made decisions that we may have later regretted or viewed as irresponsible or irrational or uncharacteristic of ourselves, but it's those decisions and other changing events that draw the thin line between those who have fallen victim to emotional and physical addictions and those who haven't. I often wonder if those who are so quick to judge victims of addictions have ever considered that they too could have been or could become an addict with one decision or unforeseeable event. Furthermore, I hope that when people are discussing addictions of youths specifically, that they remember that the culpability of minors is reduced and sometimes non-existent under the law. This simple notion of not being able to fully consent to something should be kept in mind when quickly deeming individuals as "bad kids"" and not as people in need. I just really hope that people will challenge themselves to realize that they are not so different from a person in rehab or on the street or in some other form of need. I hope that this understanding will help garner the support of the larger community to provide further support for families affected by addictions. It's about time people started supporting fellow community members and realize how valuable their support can be. Sarah Laing St. Albert - --- MAP posted-by: Beth