Pubdate: Wed, 09 Apr 2003 Source: Hattiesburg American (MS) Copyright: 2003 Hattiesburg American Contact: http://www.hattiesburgamerican.com/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/1646 Author: Maxine B. Coleman MAP Editor Note: The pastor would not reveal the identity of a parishioner who brought him a stash of found drugs because he could not betray a confidence. PASTOR CORRECT TO WITHHOLD NAME This letter is being written because I would like you all (the Hattiesburg American, as well as the general public) to know that I support pastor Fairley wholeheartedly. In the Catholic church the priest attends his parishioners in the confessional, and this is considered sacred and he does not have to divulge the conversation, even if it is unlawful. In the Baptist church the pastor attends his parishioners in his office. The sanctity of his office is the same as the confessional the priest counsels in. Just like the psychologist or psychiatrist, the church has a responsibility to uphold the confidentiality of the people being counseled. If people/parishioners feel that you are not trustworthy or that their conversations will be repeated, you will lose not only the confidence placed in you, you will also lose all credibility - as pastor Fairley stated on WDAM-TV. I have never been more proud of pastor Fairley as I was seeing him standing up as usual for other people and what he believes in. Maxine B. Coleman Hattiesburg - --- MAP posted-by: Beth